Sunday, June 22, 2008
Your life
you know sometimes i think that no matter how much we say can have no effect on another person?
i was just reminded of a friend.
not only me, but a few others have constantly encourage, advised, warned, this friend but it seems like there's no pt in us telling cos it just doesnt work.
and even this friend knows what he/she has been doing with his/her life. sometimes, i guess its not up to the people arnd us to determine how you choose to lead your life? and sometimes even though you know the consequences, or maybe saw/see it coming, you wouldnt change from your ways?
maybe sometimes, its just to let others fall and and have a taste of how bad the fall is. if even then he/she doesnt learn, idk how else to help.
at this pt of time, im not invovled in his/her life,we dont even meet up. not that i delibrately want to distant myself away, becos im too tired of encouraging, hoping the best for him/her, yet there's not much changes. and somehow i think i dont want to 'mother' him/her anymore. let nature takes it course i guess.
im quite certain that falling down would be the best way for him/her to learn.
i was just reminded of a friend.
not only me, but a few others have constantly encourage, advised, warned, this friend but it seems like there's no pt in us telling cos it just doesnt work.
and even this friend knows what he/she has been doing with his/her life. sometimes, i guess its not up to the people arnd us to determine how you choose to lead your life? and sometimes even though you know the consequences, or maybe saw/see it coming, you wouldnt change from your ways?
maybe sometimes, its just to let others fall and and have a taste of how bad the fall is. if even then he/she doesnt learn, idk how else to help.
at this pt of time, im not invovled in his/her life,we dont even meet up. not that i delibrately want to distant myself away, becos im too tired of encouraging, hoping the best for him/her, yet there's not much changes. and somehow i think i dont want to 'mother' him/her anymore. let nature takes it course i guess.
im quite certain that falling down would be the best way for him/her to learn.